Absoultely Unbelieveable...!...?...

       I am so disappointed in the so-called Christian men of today. They claim to be Christian, (Christ-like), but are they really.?. I have realized that the idea of men just saying what they think this woman or that woman wants to hear, is still the case today, more than ever before.

       From my experience it is a lot like the men are the fishermen and they think that women are fish. Let me explain further. When a man goes fishing he baits the hook, the fish bites and gets hooked, then he pulls the fish out of the water, sees the fish, and if it is not perfect in every way, he throws it back in. The bait is the man's words that "need" to be said which is just enough to entice an interest from the woman. The interest of the woman is when the fish bites and gets "hooked". The pulling of the fish out of the water, is just like when they man and woman finally meet. Once they see each other and the man decides that she is not perfect for him, he throws her back in "the water", or society. He does this with no explanation as to why he is throwing "the fish" back in, instead of keeping it. Then he is never to be seen or heard of again. Is this pretty self-explanatory, and/or understandable?

       I am blogging about this because I have not yet met a truly genuine and sincerely honest Christian man, if any of these kind of men really exist. They all seem to be superficial, in my opinion. So unfortunate, isn't it? I'm sure you're wondering what happened to cause me to feel and think this way. Are You?

       Well, here it goes: I have met a few guys on the internet and have been surprised by some of their expectations. One that really got me thinking was the one that wanted to be just friends with benefits. He wanted a physical monogamy, but did not want a committed relationship. Are you stinking kidding me???...!... Before we met we would talk, text and email one another a lot, but once we met and he did not get what he wanted, he was gone. Not much talking unless it is to ask for his "needs" to be met. This is a Christian Man? Seriously? Not in my book.

       There is one other person I would like to give credit to giving me a reason to fell/think this way. I chatted with this one for a short time, recently, and he was excited to meet. Until we met that is... SMH. I guess I was not the "perfect" "fish" he was looking to catch, or that he thought I might be. I quit. It is going to be just me and my kids and of course, My Heavenly Father. Amen.